There won't be any nudity, also intimate practices with a sexual nature won't be practiced during the event - instead you'll be invited to practice a love appointment with your partner in the privacy of your own bedroom after the event.

No, the BRIDGE events focus on creating deep intimacy within the sacred container of your own couple. There could be group interactions such as a sharing (never required), but the focus of the entire workshop is to support you and your partner to connect in new and profound ways.

No, I am probably the most down-to-earth Tantra teacher out there.

Tantra teaches us to embrace all aspects of human experience; which includes the spiritual and the so called non-spiritual aspects of ourselves that often have been shamed or unexplored, for example our sexuality, emotions, and spirituality. Now you might be surprised that Tantra is way more down to earth than you can imagine, plus our approach is to make Tantra modern and applicable to your daily life. Ask yourself this: do you want a deeply full-filling, supportive, sustainable and passionate relationship? Than Tantra is the way! Now it is up to you to dare to lean in.

The event will be taught in English, but don’t worry if you’re not fluent. You can always do the exercises with your partner in your own language. Dieke, who is Dutch, can also translate whenever necessary, though in practice this rarely becomes an issue. Plus, the event is experiential and not just talking-based — everything is demonstrated, so you’ll be able to follow along easily.

If you’re feeling hesitant, scared, or unsure whether the BRIDGE Valentine's Event is right for you — you’re not alone.

Some of the doubts I hear most often sound like this:
– “We’re not being intimate right now…”
– “What if this brings up things?”
– “It already feels scary to even suggest this to my partner.”
– “What if he says no?”

Let me be very clear about one thing:

This event is not about judging your relationship.
It’s not about performing intimacy.
It’s not about where you should be.
It’s an invitation to reconnect from exactly where you are.

Whether your intimate life has been vibrant, quiet, or completely absent lately — it doesn’t matter. Intimacy doesn’t disappear because love is gone. It disappears when life gets loud. And it can always be found again — gently, consciously, together.